A real breakthrough

     I think I have made real progress.  This morning H did everything in his power to bring me down, to make me as miserable as HE always is.  This time I didn't take the bait.  I refused to get into a big long discussion about our financial situation which he had initiated for the sole purpose of getting me upset and worried. I simply said that we needed more money, and that to get more money someone would need to get a job-end of story.  after all, what else is there to say?  why draw it out?  like I said, he just wanted to upset me.  I won't do it anymore.  I am so proud of myself!